How To Be Fit Without A Gym Membership

Throughout my years of seeking the perfect body, the countless hours I have spent in gyms working on said body, and my present life that makes getting to a gym on any kind of a regular basis difficult, I feel qualified to give my thoughts on this subject.  First off, if your fitness goal is to bulk up as much as you can muscularly, or if you require the motivation of being in a specific setting to exercise, than by all means, regular visits to the fitness club are what you need to achieve this.  Most of us though I am guessing are wanting to either get or maintain a toned athletic figure.  This goal can be easily realized on your own time in or around our home with very little cost.  The time and money saved working out on your own versus a monthly gym membership are significant and can happen as follows:

What you need

A pair of hand held dumbbells along with a small assortment of weights to add to them.  This really needs to only be the sole expense and everything should be able to be purchased for under a hundred dollars, or, give or take, one Source: Gettyimages.commonth’s gym membership if you look at it that way.  Alternately, you might try your local thrift store where there is often an assortment of used weights to choose from (I was able to get everything I needed for forty dollars at one).  These dumbbells not only give great versatility in the numerous exercises that can be performed, but they take up very little room; even someone living in the famous closet-sized New York city apartment can easily stash them under their bed.

A couple props are necessary in order to perform some of the exercises.  Make sure you have a sturdy chair that can be used for seated weight lifts, such as the seated curl or military press.  Additionally, a flat bench will be needed (a picnic table bench is more than sufficient) in order to perform bench press and fly exercises.

An optional purchase could be a yoga ball.  This is not necessary, but I like it for the versatility it adds to exercises along with its ability to allow you to target muscles better.  It can be laid or sat on while doing appropriate weight exercises to give a greater workout as the full body is utilized in balancing while doing the lifts.  Also, it offers a great number of sit up or lower back work out opportunities.  A good sized yoga ball can be had for thirty to forty dollars, but again, it does not hurt to check your local thrift store first.

Bringing it all together

We just covered what you will need to get, if you don’t already have, in order to start on a home fitness regimen.  The other added aspects just require your body and room enough to stretch out.  Some of the most effective exercises are push ups, pull ups, sit ups, and dips.  Push ups and sit ups can be done on any floor surface in the home.  Pull ups and dips require a bit of creativity.  I have been able to find suitable sources in my neighborhood park to perform these: The support bars for one of the eight foot basketball hoops for pull ups, and a point on the playground where two railings are close enough together for the dips.  If you look around your yard or neighborhood park with an eye towards these exercises, you should be able to find something that will work suitably.

Venturing out to do either pull ups or dips can be coupled with the necessary, but generally unloved, cardiovascular aspect of the workout.  Running is generally the quickest and most effective way to raise the heartbeat and involve the entire body.  It can be done just about anywhere, such as around the neighborhood park for instance.  Of course biking or rollerblading, among other activities, can be just as effective and, more importantly, often more fun.  Even walking, if done often (should you live in a city and spend a lot of time traveling places on foot) is a very acceptable option.  The key is to at least spend a half hour a day moving your body via one of these means.

Scheduling your workout regimen

My recommendation is to workout four days a week (Mon, Tues, Thurs, Fri, or two on, one off, two on, two off however you like).  Five days a week (Mon-Fri) is also acceptable if you want, just give your self a couple days in a row to relax between it all.

Three separate routines seem to target everything best: 1) chest and upper legs, 2) shoulders/back and lower legs, 3) arms/butt.  Do one of these routines each day and follow the given order so that there is at least two to three days between the same routine and no one is done more than twice in a week.

What each workout regimen should look like

1. Chest and upper legs
- push ups, sit ups
- flies, leg lifts
- bench press, lunges
- outside for dips, 30 min. of cardiovascular

Tip: pair two exercises of separate muscle groups together, such as push ups and sit ups.  Alternate sets of each.  This allows for a fluid workout while giving muscles time to recover from each set while the other is being performed.

2. Shoulders/back, lower legs
- military press, sit ups
- shrugs, leg lifts
- shoulder raises, calf raises
- outside for pull ups, 30 min cardiovascular

Tip: Each exercise needs only to contain three or four sets.  The amount of repetitions should be determined based on how many you can comfortably complete for each set.  If you can do 10 repetitions of an exercise for the first two sets, but only eight on the third, cut back to eight repetitions for each set.  When that becomes easy, increase each set to nine, and so forth.

3. Arms/Butt
- standing curl, sit ups
- kneeling tricep extension, back raises
- two-handed curl, squats
- overhead tricep extension, leg raises

Tip: I believe the core area (abdomen, lower back) can be worked daily as is seen by their presence in each workout group.  It is important however to do modifications on these in order not to just solely work the same spot each time.  For instance, coming only half way up on a sit up targets the lower abdominals, putting a twist into a sit up or leg lift works the obliques, etc.

Overview

Follow this workout guide from your home four to five days a week and you will be as lean and muscular as you wish to put into it.  Regimen one and two should be an hour each: half an hour of weights and exercises and half an hour of cardiovascular activitiy.  Regimen three should be a half hour of weights and exercises.  Rotating through these three plans should give you three and a half to four and a half hours a week of working out, depending on if you choose four or five days to do it in.  In the course of a week’s time, that is not asking much.  The ability to do it from your own home, on your own schedule, and with virtually no cost is all an added bonus.  Happy body sculpting!

Men’s disappearing role as The Breadwinner


In this day of changing mores within society, one thing is shifting which has for so long defined us as men within the family environment, our roles as Head of Household: the primary wage earner, or “Breadwinner”.  Depending on the statistics we look at, women outnumber men in college today by 52%/48% up to 60%/40% margins.  Additionally, it has been reported that women are poised to surpass men in sheer number in the workforce within the year.   The culmination of women’s educational and consequent career achievements along with the current economy, which has hit men harder, (mostly male industries like construction and manufacturing have been most negatively affected) it is increasingly causing a lot of us to redefine our place within the family.

Many of us are not financially matching our partner, who is in a successful career, and thus feel unsure at best about this new dynamic.  So much of what we base our manhood on in the family environment is fueled by the primitive urge to provide and protect.  In our modern day, money does both of these things best.  It isn’t a stretch than to link how much money we bring in and how dependent our family is on that money to how successful we feel in our role as provider.

If we are  unemployed, underemployed, or simply in a career with no real room for growth, our unifying factor, unjustly, is a feeling of shame.  The axiom after all is of the man taking care of the family.  We feel we have let our family down, we are embarrassed of how we feel we must be seen by others, and, perhaps worst of all, we feel we have failed ourselves.

Failure to launch

It is not just the married man or the man in the family environment that is affected by this, but the single man as well.  Popular culture, especially movies, play the rhetoric that there is nothing worse than a grown man living at home with his parents.  It may play for laughs, but we get the underlying message: if you want to get the girl, find happiness and live the American Dream, it will not happen unless you make it on your own.  In general, the battle to find a good career, become more and more successful in it, and stand alone on our own two feet is one that is waged from the moment we leave our teen years behind.

How to successfully adapt to our new situation: redefining being “the man” of the house

In place of feeling upset about the changing landscape of our gender role or unsure of how to make our way in this evolving world, we should be feeling elation at being released from the tight structure of our forefathers.   The reality of men’s existence for so long is an insult to all of us in that we have been reduced to such a one-dimensional aspect as the financial provider, a walking and talking checkbook, really.  How can we move beyond this label as well as restore our lost confidence?  Let’s identify three broad categories that, if we focus on them, will make us stronger and better men, partners, friends, and members of our family, along with being happier too!

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  1. Expand our resume within the household
    Too much of our existence has solely been to support the household monetarily.  It was and is an important role still for whomever fulfills it, but there needs to be more to us than just this one thing.  Even today, with women working just as much or more than their husbands, they still often account for a disproportionate amount of the housework and child rearing.  It seems on the surface, and certainly at the time when we are getting out of doing the dishes, to be a good deal to us.  In reality, no matter what our partner says, there is resentment because of this and it permeates our entire relationship.What we need to do is take a more active role within the house.  If you don’t know how to cook, you can learn.  Cleaning the bathroom and helping the kids with their homework should not be the domain of our partners solely.  Everything you do will be repaid several fold in the strength it will add to your relationship.
  2. All the day to day necessities should be split depending on how much you and your partner work.  They are called our partners for a reason; we are supposed to be in on things together.  If there is not a division of labor and someone is constantly performing the same task, whether planned that way or not, it is going to breed resentment.  Assessing where needs are, what our strengths are, and taking a more active role in the day to day chores of our relationship is a simple concept.  If you take the time and initiative to get involved you and your partner will both love and respect each other much more.

  3. Engage our family
    The biggest benefit of finding ourselves around the house more should be added time available to spend with the family.  If we have children, there can never be enough time to spend with them.  Whether we now have time to coach or be involved otherwise in extra-curricular activities with them, added time to help with the homework, or just opportunities to hang out, this will add immeasurably to our relationships.
  4. Likewise with other family members and friends.  I know I can get caught up in the business of life where I can go way too long without calling or writing my relatives and friends.  If we find we have more time now, we can spend it with those that are important to us.  Our relationships in life in the end are all that matters.  Ever memory of any great moment in life is not of us alone but with family and friends; these thoughts exists because of them.

  5. Define ourselves
    Perhaps most appealing to us is the chance to explore our own interests.  Freed of at least some of the burden of financial provider we can take some time to develop our hobbies or even get into a career where our enjoyment, not how much it pays, is the deciding factor.  We might decide to go back to school if that entices us and is feasible.  The point is, without the obligation to just make and bring home money we have a whole new world of possibilities and with freedom and choices comes happiness.

Instead of lamenting and fearing women’s rise in our society, we should be celebrating it.  If we are so luck as to have a partner or spouse that is in a successful career it opens up more opportunities for us.  We now have the ability to do almost anything we want rather than being pidgeon-holed as the financial head of household.  Accepting that we may not be bringing home all or even most of the bacon may be a hard adjustment, but in the end if we gain a more active role in our household, build stronger relationships, and have time to focus on our true interests, I don’t see how that can be anything other than good.